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i ve moved to :

http://nurulnajib.blogspot.com/

setelah berzaman-zaman bercuti sambil bekerja maka saya sudahla pulang ke tempat asal iaitu gombak bumi yg ramai pendatang.

okay,1430 H n 2009 M is in.seperti biasa,saya akan meng’cliche’kan diri dgn menulis azam2 baru saya yg saya pasti akan berusaha utk mencapainya.

1.mempertingkatkan amal ibadah. - solat terjaga,quran at least 1 page per day.,zikir2 yg mana mampu,puasa sunat 2 kali sebulan.

2.menamatkan M.Sc.-musti habiskan tahun ni.thesis paper musti submit tahun nih.

sikit tak azam saya?itu yg paling pntg perlu dicapai.if i can do these two,others are easy.ok.ill attend our ex skool gathering.next entry about the gathering

berita paling menyakitkan hati hari ini : baby umur 20 bulan dicabul oleh ‘binatang’ umor lewat 30an dan 16 tahun yg merupakan ank beranak.

masyarakat sekarang dah makin gila perangainya.ya allah.apalah dosanya ank kecik tu .lapar kemain ke?pencabul2 tu mmg patut dihukum rejam dan kalo boley potong skali anunya.kalo tak berapa ramai lagi nk dibahamnya!

saya x pasti camna binatang 2 ekoq tu boleh mencabul.maybe ada kaitan dgn pengasuh si kanak2 tu.bagi saya,seblom hantar ank ke pengasuh ke nurseri ke taska ke tadika ke,selidikla betul2.pilihla yang amalan agamanya kukuh.akhlaknya baik.kerana merekalah akan turut mencorak masa depan anak2 kita.bukannya apa,skang nih org nk cr jalan mudah,cr duit amik upah bela anak org.kdg2 tuh xda pon sikap ihsan kasih sayang pada kanak2.cuma nk cari duit lebih.pada manusia2 begini : STOP IT!PI CARI KEJA LAIN!

sambung balik kes cabul tu,bagi pencabul kanak2 nih hukuman berat perlu diambil.biar berat betul dan diasingkan dari masyarakat atau ditag.org2 mcm nih mmg jenis kecut teloq dgn org dewasa.dgn budak kecik pon jalan.seriously,campak je binatang camni dalam kandang rimau lapaq!!

ya allah lindungilah zuriat keturunan ahli keluarga dari perbuatan zalim manusia ya allah..

home-school is in trend.there’s many reason why people home-schooling.
the main answer is parents are the best educator.

okay.i can accept the that.parents are born to be an educator (suppose).however
behaving like an educationist is something totally different.educationist is a people who devoted their life in education line.doing researches and lots of it to discover the best solution for education purposes.

the thing is,when most of the parents keep blaming the school educators (read:teacher) and education system as not adequate and whatsoever.then doing their home schooling for the sake of secure and satisfaction (for themselves or children?),how do they determine the quality of their education?

when i go through some of the web that claimed to represent the group of home-schoolers or home-school practitioner,most of them are lacking of educational points.most of it lacking of pedagogical learning and the psychology of learning.as for the pre-schooler,emphasizing on the playing time is good but with no direction and guidance (educational prompts etc) during the time will left the children with no new knowledge.some might say,”it is very subjective.we shouldnt assess the young children“.for me,in teaching and learning process , assessment is very crucial because it measures what we have teach them and what they have learned.and by doing that we know the effectiveness of the home-schooling.

im a very reasonable and analytic person.to make me believe,you have to provide an ample statistics and prove that it is beneficial.otherwise i wont believe.the issue with most of the parents regarding their children’s education is,they say what they want to without any prove.the mama will say “home school is good.i can spend more time with my children“.ok.it is good in term of maternal relationship.how about the cognitive,academic,social,learning process itself?is there any way to measure the efficiency?

i might sound sceptical.but for me,in everthing we want to do,equip urself with knowledge.otherwise,just leave it to the expert!just to share,Vanessa Hudgens from High School Musical is home-schooled children who said she longed to attend and wear a graduation suit.well,maybe after this graduation day for home-schooler will be held..perhaps?

iklan itu memaparkan rumah banglo yang direnovate oleh suami saya.
sekarang baru la ada rupa rumah skit.kalo x mcm rumah hantu jek.
hehhehe

ok.today i lost my vincci sandals.
an ethnic style like a ‘capal’ ,
with brocade fabric and gold lining.
comfy and nice.
i put it inside the gated outer compound.
suppose mmg susah nk capai.
tatau la nak kata…

bengang.tensen.sbb thats my fav sandals.

we just came back from our ‘balik kampung’ trip to kedah.

things happened during the trip

+met shilme and family in yan,kdh.after
almost a year our online friendship.it is now
officially bersua muka.the hospitality is superb
minus the super heat kedah that almost made me
crazy!!(cairo’s summer is better than this!we both agree in
this)

+mandi manda di batu hampar.but tt hayun is cleaner n better!
kene sembelih minum kat pantai murni!!kot ye pon jgn la  melampau sangat
harganya!kedai no 2 dan 3 dr arah masuk belah kiri yg ada banyak van2 jual
makanan n minuman tu!dont go there

+went to ‘tanjung’ aka pulau pinang (pulau)
vsit bro in law n family there.pi padang kota
melilau cari dolphin..huhuhu.this is my 2nd visit
after almost 20 years..hahah..peghak abis akuk!
(seriously im not going to live in that island.2 crowded
and d traffic is worse that KL!)

+makan ais kacang kat pekan rabu di tengah hari terik buta!!
masyaallah sedapnya!!!then membuang masa di tesco mergong
and giant aloq staq.tesco’s facilities mmg superb.rasa cam bukan kat kedah
plak!

conclusion : malaysia ni pon da banyak tempat tak terkata bley dilawat!cuti cuti malaysia!mai pi utagha!

every 11 am 5th of december remarks our wedding anniversary.
so this year it is the fourth year we nurturing the sacred love.
may allah grant us the love and blessing until the here-after
inshaallah

My husband got a tender to set up wiring of a banglo in seksyen 9 , shah alam.
actually,the banglo is rented by his friend,abg asri from Penang. I went there and the banglo is in despair mode and need a lot of refurbishment.however the design is magnificient.with an english style it is really a nice place to be. kak hasni,the wife said it will be use to set up a community centre for muslim.there will be a range of classes.and she told me to write a proposal to set up a sign language courses since they are already 10 parents who are interested. she even asked us to stay in shah alam.my husband has already fall in love with shah alam for her less traffic and well structured town.and i havent decide anything.i prefer somewhere near to upm.it is easier for me to go to campus and also near to my office.shah alam is not that far from serdang.around 25 minutes compared to gombak it took 45 minutes to reach in upm.mmm (considering)…we are still considering.however the rent is too much lower in seri kembangan compared to shah alam.mmm….(thinking)..if i got the fellowship from upm,we will definitely move to the nearest place.and for that we do not have any conclusve mind yet…anyone with a slightest idea please comment..